Some invitations require postage to send; others require courage and vulnerability.
There is no standard rate for sending the second type of invite. Calculating risk replaces counting coins.
When an invitation is sent but not accepted, the rate of sending the next invite increases.
When an invitation is sent and accepted, the rate of sending the next one decreases.
A steady tide of invitations that consistently come and go establish a relationship’s rhythm, which can be felt just like if I invited you to put your hand on my chest to feel my heart beat,
and you said yes.
Leslie Gates 